Lie

Lying is the cause of many troubles and misfortunes.

One of the worst habits that some of us humans may have is lying. Every human being during his life may tell many small or maybe big lies, but if we get used to lying, we will be fine. To lie about anything, to hide, to exaggerate.

Perhaps one of the simplest models of lying is that, for example, when we buy a device and others ask us about its price, we may not say the true price and exaggerate several times more, and thus Get used to lying to us.

It may not be important to lie about such trivial things, but it does give us the habit of lying.

Honesty is one of the most important components in the important matter of marriage. A relationship that is based on trust, if it is not accompanied by honesty and each couple lies to each other (even a small lie), this trust will be destroyed and their lives will gradually fall apart.

Isn't it far from humanity to ruin our lives and those of our partner with lies and secrecy? A person who (whether a girl or a boy) marries with a thousand hopes and aspirations and strives for the happiness of himself and his wife, is it fair that he was not honest and suffered a great defeat in life?

Lying is such that in order to prove the first lie, we have to tell the second, third, and so on. In this way, a series of lies are intertwined like a chain, and in order to prevent the chain from breaking and the truth from being revealed, lies lie behind the lies.

Some of us humans do not know how to lie. A person who is truthful can be easily identified if he lies voluntarily or under duress. With signs like:

Reddening of the complexion

- Falling to the ground

- Talking with pause and thought

And as the saying goes, his eyes reveal the truth.

Further reading: Men and women body language training

But the liar lies so much that he himself believes. What about others.

Whatever behavior we become accustomed to, it will no longer be difficult to do. It is as if that behavior is happening to us subconsciously.

The fact that some people lie is rooted in his mental problems. For example, someone who lies even about the price of the goods he bought, I think is a kind of entanglement inside him. Such a person thinks that if he increases the value of what he has bought, he will also increase the value of his class, in slang. He wants to show himself in this way.

The lying of some people also stems from the example of their family. Especially if the parent of a child who has been accustomed to hearing lies from his parents since childhood, over time, his tongue also becomes accustomed to telling lies.

Woe to such people who, in addition to destroying themselves, also cause the wrong upbringing of their children.

Closing remarks:

By lying we not only commit sin, but we also lose our value and credibility with others. No one trusts us anymore, even when we are right.